Wedding Day

Ceremony

Crosby Mansion 

Reception

Our Wedding

It all started at the dog park. While connections can take time, Matt earned the only endorsement that truly mattered right away: a clear pass of approval from Rufus. From that very first afternoon, there was an unspoken certainty that we’d somehow end up here, celebrating together on the grounds of Crosby Mansion.Getting here, however, wasn't entirely smooth sailing. Life threw plenty of logistical hurdles our way:🩷 Tackling the grueling 4.5-hour drive back and forth between our homes.🩷 An unforgettable first visit to New York, complete with Matt’s toilet literally exploding to welcome Kelly to the city.🩷 Ace making it his personal life mission to wedge himself directly between the two of us every single time we sat down.Through the miles, the plumbing disasters, and the constant competition for couch space, we built a life side-by-side. Now, we can't wait to gather with our favorite people in Brewster to make it official!

How It All Began

Our Story

Photos

Long before we chose The Crosby Mansion for our wedding day, its original builders, Albert and Matilda Crosby, accidentally wrote our blueprint.Back in 1888, Albert was an older gentleman who just wanted to rest, kick his feet up, and gaze at Cape Cod Bay. Matilda was his much younger, dazzling wife who craved excitement, grandeur, and was always busy planning something. Rather than force one person to change, Albert built a 35-room mansion wrapped around his cozy cottage so he could rest in peace while Matilda lived large and kept the house buzzing.Sound familiar?Between Matt’s dedication to resting and recharging, Kelly’s natural state of feral chaos, we couldn’t be a more natural fit for Crosby’s history. It turns out that when a calm anchor meets a wild storm, the result isn't conflict—it's a party big enough to fill a mansion.

Crosby Mansion

September 17, 2027Welcome PartyLocation: TBD

September 18, 2027CeremonyCrosby Landing, Brewster, MA.ReceptionCrosby Mansion, Brewster, MA

September 19, 2027BrunchSea Meadows Inn, Brewster, MA

Schedule

Dress up enough to impress Aunt Donna, but comfortably enough to abandon your shoes at the first sign of a good song.

Dress Code

Located in East Dennis on Route 6A, very close to Sesuit Harbor &amp; Marina. 21 rooms that can accommodate anywhere from single guests up to groups of six. Amenities include a pool, fire pit, and complimentary bikes. There is not a room block given their boutique size, but they know you're coming. We recommend booking soon. Direct bookings: <a href="http://sesuitharborhouse.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sesuitharborhouse.com</a>

Sesuit Harbor House

Travel

When&nbsp;the&nbsp;tide&nbsp;recedes&nbsp;in&nbsp;Cape&nbsp;Cod&nbsp;Bay,&nbsp;the&nbsp;water&nbsp;pulls&nbsp;back&nbsp;over&nbsp;a&nbsp;mile,&nbsp;uncovering&nbsp;sandbars,&nbsp;oyster&nbsp;beds,&nbsp;and&nbsp;shallow&nbsp;pools.&nbsp;Access&nbsp;the&nbsp;flats&nbsp;from&nbsp;Breakwater&nbsp;Beach,&nbsp;Crosby&nbsp;Landing,&nbsp;or&nbsp;Paine's&nbsp;Creek.

Walk the Brewster Flats at Low Tide

Designed&nbsp;by&nbsp;John&nbsp;Hendrickson!&nbsp;Ride&nbsp;his&nbsp;famous&nbsp;Rail&nbsp;Trail.&nbsp;Brewster&nbsp;provides&nbsp;several&nbsp;access&nbsp;points&nbsp;with&nbsp;ample&nbsp;parking&nbsp;(such&nbsp;as&nbsp;the&nbsp;lot&nbsp;near&nbsp;Long&nbsp;Pond&nbsp;Road&nbsp;or&nbsp;Nickerson&nbsp;State&nbsp;Park).&nbsp;Ride&nbsp;east&nbsp;toward&nbsp;Orleans&nbsp;and&nbsp;Wellfleet&nbsp;or&nbsp;west&nbsp;toward&nbsp;Dennis&nbsp;through&nbsp;cranberry&nbsp;bogs&nbsp;and&nbsp;quiet&nbsp;coastal&nbsp;forest.Rent&nbsp;a&nbsp;bike:&nbsp;Idle&nbsp;Times,&nbsp;Orleans&nbsp;(508)&nbsp;240-1122

Bike the Cape Cod Rail Trail

Located in West Brewster, the mill sits along a picturesque freshwater brook and herring run with quiet woodland paths nearby. A 10 minute stroll.

Kelly & Matt

Kelly & Matt

Dress Code

POLISHED AT FIVE, BAREFOOT BY NINE.